I know you all have been enjoying the videos we have posted. What can I say? We’re freaking hilarious. But what you also want to know is, how are WE coming along, living together. It’s been important to all four of us to talk about the interworkings of how it’s really going so that when some of you decide to do this (and we hope you do) you don’t go into it expecting it to be all fun, games and dancing. It’s important to me personally to be transparent because, well… I think it’s stupid that we aren’t, when doing so can help others and free others up to do the same. Ben’s parents were over one night and his dad, James was saying,(my paraphrase) “You know, when you get married you realize, ‘Wow, I am a really selfish person!’ and then you have kids and God REALLY uses that to show you how selfish you are!” I smiled and nodded thinking, “Yeah, or living with another couple!” I came into this being used to just living with Jay. Our actions for the most part only affected each other...